Not on my 2023 bingo card

Hey everyone!! I’m so sorry that it’s been so long since I last wrote something. When I tell y’all it has been a whirlwind of a time. Whirlwind is honestly an understatement. And, for the most part, things have been going really well. But those are the times when I seem to have the most writer’s block. Because for some weird unexplainable reason, I’m always more inspired by tragedy than triumph. So I figured it was high time I let y’all in on the latest news. Strap in cause here we go.

As far as work goes, I started at a new law firm last week. The last two years at MH were a season of learning, growth, and change. My eyes were truly opened to my own abilities, strengths, and value to my employer and in this field. It was at MH that I met Zach - my work best friend and the best attorney and person I’ve ever worked under. And recently he and I decided to make a move to a Plaintiff’s personal injury firm. It’s a dynamic, fast-paced environment (yes, I know I sound like a corporate job listing but bear with me here). I love that it’s challenging but also flexible. We’re all in it together just trying to figure things out and learn as much as we can. And I thrive on that camaraderie. My hope for 2024 is to continue to build out my role there and become an integral part of the team.

On the personal front there have also been some very exciting updates. Drum roll please……. I am officially in a relationship. This was definitely not on my 2023 bingo card. Unexpected to say the least. We met on tinder, but from the beginning, I had a feeling he was going to be different. Every question he asked always seemed so genuine, so earnest. There was no guile there, no ulterior motives. And I could sense there was a level of interest that I hadn’t  encountered before. At least not from anyone that I was as equally enamored by.

From the moment we met in person the chemistry was undeniable. We have such a similar sense of humor - always picking on each other and letting our sarcasm come through. He’s quick witted and goofy. The best combination. And let me just say….. this man is handsome. Like got me all heart eyes emoji handsome. Tall and blue eyes and wavy strawberry blonde hair. And when he smiles, it lights up his whole face. And it makes me glow from the inside to see him in those happy moments. But beyond all of that is the way he shows how much he cares about me. I can’t properly articulate that feeling. He likes to say I’m his peace. And I've come to the conclusion that he’s mine too. Because he treats my emotions with such a tenderness, such consideration, so gently, as one would hold a faberge egg. He’s caring and respectful, incredibly hardworking, and driven by loyalty. And despite life giving him many reasons to quit, he always keeps going. We have that in common, and I think it’s part of what makes us a good match.

Now it’s still early days. But I’ve bought him some Christmas presents already, so Brandon, if you’re reading this, you better stick around at least until then 😂. For the first time in a long time, I’m hopeful, happy, and content. I’m starting to believe that maybe things are allowed to work out for me. Now let’s all collectively cross our fingers and pray to our respective deities that this works out, because it takes a village and I need all the good energy I can get. As always, I so appreciate all of you who keep up with this little side project of mine. It means the world to me. And if you don’t hear from me before then, merry Christmas ya filthy animals.